Saturday, April 14, 2012

The Scores and How Our 2012 Retirement Index Works

This is a qualitative assessment, based on real-world data gathered on the ground. For each category in our Index, we looked closely at what matters most to you when you’re considering an overseas retirement spot—everything from the price of bread to how easy it is to make friends or stay in touch with family.

We considered a vast range of data points, from the average humidity to the cost of a taxi. And with costs in mind, we examined prices for real estate, rentals, and utilities like water, electricity, and cable TV. We looked at costs for groceries, eating out, even specific medical procedures. We took into account what kind of discounts retirees can get on travel, taxes and entertainment. And we cons


Country Real Estate Special Benefits Cost of Living Inte. E&A Health Infras. Climate Final Scores
Ecuador 97 98 100 95 90 85 80 83 91.1
Panama 95 100 95 96 96 91 82 68 90.4
Mexico 94 91 88 96 96 88 75 89 89.6
Malaysia 94 79 95 95 96 87 91 66 87.7
Colombia 93 76 60 92 96 93 84 75 83.7
New Zealand 87 72 69 90 93 84 86 89 83.6
Nicaragua 92 79 94 89 85 78 63 70 82.6
Spain 79 68 78 90 93 76 94 81 82.1
Thailand 90 68 71 91 97 83 76 75 81.4
Honduras 82 89 76 95 96 78 67 63 80.7
Uruguay 91 76 81 87 57 81 83 87 80.4
Italy 69 74 60 71 98 80 90 100 80.3
Brazil 81 87 68 81 99 85 69 71 80.2
Ireland 70 90 57 99 91 70 85 79 80.2
France 68 75 57 82 100 90 88 90 80.1
Costa Rica 88 79 65 97 94 83 74 60 80.0
Belize 80 84 84 100 83 82 70 57 79.9
Chile 90 73 77 80 93 81 84 61 79.8
Dom. Republic 93 68 60 85 89 72 75 72 76.8

*E&A = Entertainment and Amenities; Inte. = Integration; Infras. = Infrastructure

The World’s Top Retirement Havens in 2012

In the States today, the discussion about retirement orbits around how much less of it we’re all going to have. While the cost of everything from healthcare to food swells… incomes, pensions and nest eggs erode, leaving baby boomers fewer and fewer options for retirement at home.

But look at the right places beyond our borders today, and you’ll find you have more good choices than ever for a comfortable – even a pampered – retirement. In any one of our top 19 havens for 2012, a lifestyle well beyond your reach in the States could be yours for pennies on the dollar.

In this, our annual Global Retirement Index, we bring you the top choices available on the planet today. From beachfront hideaways to arts-rich colonial cities, from cosmopolitan capitals to small highland villages, there’s an overseas haven to fit your fantasy… and your budget.

For our Retirement Index, we only measure the very best havens against one other. So the country last on our list is still the 19th best in the world.

In each of our 2012 top retirement destinations, you’ll find thousands of ordinary folks who’ve not simply salvaged their retirements overseas… but upgraded them.

Take Daphne Newman, who lives in Caribbean Honduras. She’s spending just $1,400 a month to live yards from a white-sand beach on the island of Roatan. Only a three-hour flight from the U.S., English-speaking Roatan with its world-class reef just offshore, is an easy place to make friends and fit in. It lands mid-table in this year’s Index.

Jack Griffin and his wife Margaret have opted, by contrast, for city life in Nicaragua. When the stock market crashed and the value of their home in the States plummeted by 30%, they began to worry about how to fund their retirement. The final straw came with a 37% hike in their annual health-insurance premium. At age 60, they felt they deserved the retirement they had worked for all their lives, so they found a new home in Managua, the country’s capital.

Today their international medical insurance costs them 62% less than their policy did back home (yet their local hospital is internationally accredited and the doctors speak English).
Retired now without money worries, they spend their days exploring, horseback riding, going to the beach or gym, and doing yoga. They have a full-time maid and a gardener and, says Jack, “We do it all for less than half the cost of a moderate lifestyle back home in Atlanta, Georgia.”

Chuck and Jamie Bilbe, ready to retire in Florida, found themselves in a situation similar to the Griffins’. “We were concerned that our retirement savings wouldn’t see us through, so we began looking overseas for a place where our ever-shrinking nest egg might last longer,” says Chuck. Now they live in Corozal, Belize, their cost of living is much lower than it was in the States, but that’s not the greatest appeal. What they say they like most is the Old-World lifestyle. “Like Florida in the 1950’s,” they say. “We’re eating better, sleeping better and enjoying social activity much more now than we did before.”

It’s not just destinations south of the States that appeal. Pam Griner Leavy and her husband Jim are just two of the more than 100,000 American expats living in France. They’re retired in Paris on a reasonable $3,149 a month. “There are so many things for free here, or reasonably priced…big-city life is good,” says Pam.
In Asia you can live comfortably for less than $1,000 a month on a powder-sand beach in Thailand. Up the budget just a bit and you can afford First-World comforts and conveniences in colonial Penang Island, Malaysia. Keith Hockton and his wife Lisa live there, where they rent a sea-view apartment for $1,000 a month – it comes with a shared pool and gym – and they eat out five nights a week, keep a small sailboat, enjoy cycling through the botanic gardens. Their total budget is $1,719 a month.

In Brazil, expats with $2,150 a month can live a block from the country’s best beaches in Fortaleza. In Boquete, Panama, Karl and Liz Parker need just $2,000 a month to fund their life in a place that provides lavish highland views in a near-perfect climate. Panama’s retiree-benefit program provides them discounts on nearly everything, too, which helps keep their costs down.

In Cuenca, Ecuador, Douglas Willis, his wife and two children live on just $1,000 a month. In Costa Rica’s Central Valley, Sharon and Lee Harris bought a townhouse in Heredia for $75,000, and pay only $40 a month for healthcare coverage as members of the Caja, the country’s excellent national healthcare system.
Wherever the community they’ve chosen is—beach, city, highland, valley—these expats all have one thing in common:  They’re living the lives they’ve always wanted for much less than they ever dreamt they could.
Think about it this way: If you had $20,000 a month to retire on—you could live lavishly pretty much anywhere on the planet. But what we’re interested in here are the places where you can live that lifestyle on one-tenth the budget…

Places where you can have a maid clean for you…hire a gardener… wake up to a view…have great health care, eat well, enjoy the finer things in life—for less than $2,000 a month. You may be surprised how many there are…

This 2012 Retirement Index covers all the bases, revealing a wealth of choice when it comes to comfortable retirement living abroad. Choices you don’t have to be wealthy to take advantage of.

The Cheapest Places to Retire

Ecuador is the clear winner in our cost of living category. A couple watching their spending here can live well on $800 a month. And even if you push the boat out you’ll find it hard to spend more than $1,500.
Patricia Farmer and her husband Ron retired to Bahia on the country’s coast. After 10 months living there, they know what things cost. “It averages out to be a fifth the cost of living in California. We live in a nice highrise condo overlooking the ocean. With two spoiled cats in need of gourmet food, our love of fine dark chocolate, good Chilean wines, and eating out with friends, we enjoy a very comfortable lifestyle—even more luxurious than we had in California. You can live on less, no doubt, but our current budget is $1,500,” says Patricia.

But it’s not just Ecuador that’s cheap. In Panama’s highland haven of Boquete, expat Robin Cook rents a three-bed apartment for just $450 a month. On the Pacific Coast in Coronado you’ll eat out for $7…in the heart of the capital $1,500 covers you for everything…

In Nicaragua, expats in the colonial city of Granada are spending around $1,200 a month. A small house can be $500 to $1,000 a month to rent. You can get a fantastic steak dinner in the finest restaurant for around $13. Regular fare at typical restaurants runs about half that and a “local” meal is $2 to $3. The local beers, which are good, run from $0.75 to $1.50.

On  the white-sand beaches of the Dominican Republic $2,000 a month means living in a luxury apartment, having a maid, heath care…everything. And of course, it’s easily done for less…

Where Are The Best Retiree Benefits?

It’s almost shocking just how many special benefits, discounts and breaks you can gain access to as a retiree overseas. In countries like Ireland, Brazil or Chile, for example, you’ll get discounts on public transport, utilities, importing your household goods and more.

But some countries stand out for the amount and quality of benefits they offer foreign retirees. Panama tops the category with an organized program of discounts and perks called the pensionado. The program is open to foreigners and there’s no minimum age requirement.

With it you have serious discounts, money off that makes a big difference to your costs. Like 20% off any professional services used in Panama; 50% off for movies, theaters and sporting events; a 30% discount on public transport, 25% off the price of food eaten in a sit down restaurant; 15% off in fast food joints, 15% off in hospitals and private clinics…25% domestic flights on COPA…the list goes on…

Ecuador, too, has excellent benefits, though they’re not in an organized package like the pensionado. You get 50% off public and private transportation within the country (including the Galápagos); 50% off tickets for all cultural and sporting events, including movies; 50% off electric and water bills (below certain usage levels); and free domestic landline phone service (does not include long distance and other services). You’ll also get 50% off international airfares on Taca, Copa, or AeroGal for round-trip flights originating in Ecuador. And when you’re over 65, you pay lower income tax.

And there are other countries with special programs, like Belize, which has the Qualified Retired Persons (QRP) program, and then there’s the Malaysia My Second Home program, open to all foreigners wishing to retire to one of Asia’s best-value destinations… Every country on our list has some “retiree benefits” to offer.

The Best-Value Real Estate

There’s a lot to consider when buying a home…especially one overseas. First thing you want to know is how much it’s going to cost you, and again, Ecuador offers some of the best-value real estate in the world. Fifty thousand will get a penthouse suite in a colonial mountain town or a beachfront condo.
In fact, it’s so affordable that some expats chose both. Ron and Terresa Moore wanted mountain and beachfront retirement. So they bought a two-bed condo in the Andean town of Cotacachi and a new two-bed condo on the beach in Crucita—grand total $111,000.

And in Panama you’ll find bargains, too. Karl and Liz Parker both a home among the pines of Alto Boquete for $100,000. Marvin and Joanne Riddell bought their 1,650-square-foot beachfront condo in La Barqueta for $180,000…fully furnished. And in Panama City you’ll find beautiful apartments from $90,000.  Then there’s Mexico where in places like Tulum, on the country’s Caribbean coast you’ll find properties from $167,000.

We didn’t just look at real estate prices. We always recommend you rent before you buy so we also checked out rental costs. Again Ecuador is a front runner and you can rent a two-bed apartment on the beach for $500 a month or a condo in colonial Cuenca for $500.

In Thailand, about $500  a month will get you a really nice, liveable place just about anywhere in the country. IL contributor, Jason Gaspero pays just $222 a month for his beachside bungalow with air-con, hot water, WiFi, and a refrigerator.

Easiest Places to Integrate

Obviously language is the biggest factor in how easily you can make friends and build up a new network in your overseas home. That means English-speaking countries like Belize, Ireland and New Zealand do well…but other places get high marks, too, in parts of Panama, Ecuador and Mexico you’ll get by in English, and in Malaysia and Thailand you’ll find plenty of locals happy to try out their English.

Of course, in lots of places there’s already an established expat community to get involved with. There are over 80 interest groups around Lake Chapala, home to Mexico’s biggest expat community. Living in Paris, your high-school French might be rusty, but there are dozens of long-established expat clubs happy to welcome new members. The expat communities of places like Cuenca, Ecuador, and Granada, Nicaragua, have changed the face of those cities, and you’ll find making new friends and establishing yourself in the community a lot easier than you think.

Then there’s the million-dollar question—exactly how friendly are the locals? Well, the answer varies from “very” to “extremely” with the locals in all our havens happy to help a stranger in a strange land. Making an effort with the language, even just “buenas dias” or “merci” will earn you mega-brownie points. And remember, making new friends, learning about different cultures is often the best—and least planned—aspect of an overseas retirement.

But what about those home comforts? There’s nothing like peanut butter, being able to catch a ball game and pumpkin soup mix to help you settle in. For our Index we gauged just how difficult it was to find that packet of Cheerios or a genuine hotdog. You’ll find them in most places, although as imports they’re usually more expensive than local brands.

The Most Exciting Retirement Haven

Let’s get this out of the way…none of our picks are boring places, it’s just that some have more to offer than others in terms of the range of amenities and entertainment options to keep you busy.

If variety is the spice of retired life, than Paris, Panama City, the expat communities of Mexico, Medellin in Colombia, and Bangkok, Thailand, should be top of your list. Here you’ll find something different every night…choose from catching a concert, seeing a movie or eating out with friends for a fraction of the cost back home.

“Thai food is amazing,” says Jason Gaspero, “But if you get tired of it, you can find restaurants with food from all over the world.” In Medellin’s El Poblado district you’ll find Japanese, French, seafood and Italian restaurants within a block of each other.

In Malaysia you’ll catch a movie in English for $4…before it comes out in the U.S. In Punta del Este, Uruguay, artists like Shakira don’t just perform there, they live there, too.

If you love the sea, then Placencia and Amergris Caye in Belize, Roatan, Honduras, and Panama’s Caribbean Coast make sense. Scuba diving, fishing, sailing, kayaking and snorkelling, they’ve got it all. And if surfing is your passion, catch the best waves on Nicaragua and Costa Rica’s Pacific Coasts.
For foodies in love with culture, Spain and Italy offer a menu of delights unmatched anywhere else, even the smallest villages ooze history and art is everywhere. You’ll find delicious three-course meals for less than $20 in both countries, too.

Of course, you might be content with amazing new views, meeting friends down the boardwalk and a homecooked meal. “If you’re looking for exciting night clubs, Kentucky Fried Chicken, or a night at the opera, Bahia, Ecuador, is not for you. But for peace, simplicity, a dish of Pingüino ice cream, and soothing natural beauty, this is heaven,” says Patricia Farmer. “You would be hard-pressed to find such tranquillity in any beach resort town in the U.S. Even the wealthiest people inhabiting fortress-like beach homes on the hills of Malibu have to spend much of their lives sitting in rush hour traffic, breathing in smog, and feeling the crush and pressures of a type-A culture.”

Healthcare in our Havens

In each of our 19 havens you’ll find first-class hospitals and clinics where care is second-to-none, and the staff are often U.S.-trained.  But while the care is similar to the U.S. in many places, it’s a lot cheaper than back home. You’ll literally save thousands on procedures if you need them, and hundreds on prescriptions and doctors’ visits.

For example, a visit to the doctor in Nicaragua is $15, in Panama its $10 and in France house calls are standard. In fact, in many of our choices doctors put a value on the personal touch. “Our doctor in Nicaragua speaks English and we have his personal cell number for emergencies. Hard to imagine that happening in the U.S.” says Darrell Bushnell.

In many of our picks the public health care systems provide wonderful low-cost care. In Costa Rica the public health care system called the Caja, is part of a socialized medical system. Living in the Central Valley, Sharon and Lee Harris are members. “It provides economical and excellent medical care as well as prescriptions for only $40 per month for both of us. There is a Caja clinic in every neighborhood. There are also many excellent private hospitals in the Central Valley and state-run Caja hospitals in every province,” says Sharon.

The Ecuadorian government guarantees senior citizens access to free health care and medication and exemption from notary and registration fees. “All expats are able to participate in the Ecuador Social Security medical program,” explains Jack Moss who, with his wife Debbie, retired to Cotacachi two years ago. “The premium is about $57 a month, and there is no co-pay or deductible for physician visits, hospitalization, medications, or dental visits.”

Even just living overseas can improve your health, as Lucky and Erin Ivy point out on page 11 of this issue. On the sandy beaches of Placencia, Belize, they found a stress-free life that means they sleep better, and feel healthier, than ever before.

The Best Retirement Infrastructure


These days, you can have a U.S. phone number ring in your home overseas for less than $20 a year. Through online services like Skype, you can video chat with friends and family back home every day if you want to— for free. The world is more connected than ever, and that makes exploring it so much easier than it ever has been.

Good Internet coverage is a necessity most expats today are reluctant to do without. In all our havens, rest assured: You can get online. Malaysia, Italy and France have higher levels of Internet penetration than other countries—but there’s access in all of them. Quality roads and good cell phone coverage matter, too. Now, you may not want to drive, and in that case, you’ll want access to a good public transport system.

In Paris, expat Jim Leavy says he’s delighted by the great public transportation…in Cotacachi, Ecuador, IL editors Dan Prescher and Suzan Haskins get by with taxis and buses. When the mood strikes, Patricia and Ron Farmer can explore the sandy beaches of the Ecuadorian coast by taxi—$35 for the whole day. And what about direct, cheap flights home to the U.S. to visit family? You don’t even have to fly to get to Mexico; you can drive. It takes less time to fly from Houston to Quito or to Panama City than it does to fly from New York to Los Angeles.

The Best Climate

You’ll find lots of climate choice in our top retirement havens. Sharon Hiebing says she practically lives in tank tops and shorts now, and only occasionally needs a light jacket or close-toed shoes. Ever since her move to San Ignacio, Belize, Sharon has been enchanted by the climate. She’s not alone. Thousands of expats have turned in their snow shovels for good.

In places where the weather is warm year-round, not only do you eliminate the need for heavy winter clothes, but you gain in quality of life. Better weather means you’re outside more. And that often translates to “healthier.” Plus it usually means lower utility bills, too.

In Belize you’ll find an average temperature of 80 F, and it isn’t even one of our highest scoring havens in this category. Because pretty much all of our picks offer a perfect climate for part of the year, we concentrated on the ones that are the best year round.

But you could opt for the part-time strategy—capitalizing on good weather in different parts of the world. That’s what Kelly and Angela Grams do. They live lakeside in Canada May to September, then head south to their second home in warm-weather Puerta Vallarta, Mexico, October to December. Then every January to April they rent out their Mexican condo to cover their costs and spend those three months traveling.

How to Know You’re Safe Overseas
The expats living in each of our top havens report they feel safe. In fact, often they say they feel safer than they did back in the States. That’s not to say there’s no petty crime or that nothing bad ever happens.
But just as you wouldn’t dismiss the idea of owning a condo on Chicago’s upscale Magnificent Mile because of the crime stats on that city’s south side…you shouldn’t reject a town we recommend in a country where you can retire well for less…because you remember hearing something about that nation being “dangerous.” Old stereotypes die hard. You’re best served by seeing a place for yourself. Talk to expats on the ground. See how comfortable you feel there. We predict: You’ll be pleasantly surprised.

Why Ecuador is the World’s Best Retirement Haven
No matter where you choose to live in Ecuador, there is no better retirement haven in the world. That’s what our 2012 Global Retirement Index reveals. Across all eight of our crucial categories it scores strongly. It outright wins two. And nowhere does it fail to live up to its reputation.

Ecuador has the cheapest costs of living, the best-value real estate, and it presents you with some of the most diverse options of any country. Live in the colonial splendor of its cities for less than $1,000 a month…buy a beachfront condo for $60,000, with a view of the crashing Pacific…explore the country’s Amazonian jungles…live comfortably in thriving expat communities…or with friendly, welcoming locals.
The special benefits you can avail yourself of as a retiree are second only to those offered by Panama, and they don’t trail by much. You’ll find world-class healthcare at a fraction of the costs back home, along with doctors trained in the U.S. who speak English.

You’ll have dinner out for $2.50, an hour long massage for $25…a beer costs $0.85, and if you want to keep busy with work, it’s one of the best countries for an expat start-up.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

"Puppy" the Ferret Shot Dead

"Puppy" the Ferret Shot Dead 

 

The Bark Side

The Bark Side: 2012 Volkswagen Game Day Commercial Teaser 

 

Meanwhile at the bluegrass music festival

Meanwhile at the bluegrass music festival -- a little bird comes in and joins the band

Brave Kitten Stands Up to Dog

Brave Kitten Stands Up to Dog 

 

Devil Cat Is Watching You

Devil Cat Is Watching You 

 

Dog's reaction to wolf howling

Funny lol


Baxter the healing dog

19yr old dog who can't walk anymore brings moment of joy to dying people


Boxer dog doing a drama show

Stella the Boxer dog.
This is what she does when she don't get her way lol

http://www.dogwork.com/sbxd9/#

Ratatouille The Snowboarding Opossum

Found another cool video to share lol


Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Drague et séduction : Les Québécois en ont assez!

Par France Lécuyer, spécialiste en psychologie (M.A.PS) et infimière

Pour les jeunes de 18 à 35 ans, trouver l'âme soeur n'est pas de tout repos. Lasses d'espérer que les messieurs feront les premiers pas, les Québécoises doivent prendre les devants. Ce phénomène, peu banal, annoncerait-il l'extinction de comportements masculins millénaires? Voyons de quoi il est question.

Le b. a.-ba de la séduction ne consiste-t-il pas à regarder l'autre dans les yeux, à lui sourire et à encourager spontanément un échange? Si. Dans de nombreux pays occidentaux, tels que la France, l'Italie et l'Argentine, c'est ainsi que les choses se passent lorsqu'un homme est attiré par une femme. Mais pas chez nous! Ici, les mâles ne font plus les premiers pas. Une femme qui désire avoir un amoureux doit s'adonner elle-même à la drague.

Et la situation ne semble pas changer. Comment expliquer cela? Deux journalistes, Jean-Sébastien Marsan et Emmanuelle Gril, ont fouillé le sujet en long et en large afin de découvrir la réponse à cette question. Elle se trouve dans le titre de leur récent bouquin, Les Québécois ne veulent plus draguer et encore moins séduire (Les Éditions de l'Homme, 2009). Intéressant, non?

Qui sont ces célibataires passifs?

Peut-on dégager le profil de cette génération de gars non séducteurs? Au Québec, bien des hommes semblent dominés par une peur irrationnelle du rejet sentimental, et ils ne flirtent presque plus. Les spécimens rarissimes qui se lancent encore dans quelque entreprise de séduction ou de drague ne font pas preuve de dextérité, expliquent les auteurs. Ils sont souvent indépendants sur le plan affectif et vivent seuls. On les dit volontiers narcissiques, réservés, allergiques aux conflits, épris de liberté... bien qu'ils rêvent toujours de l'amour romantique. En parfaite résonance avec le vide qu'ils ressentent par rapport à notre époque, ils sont en rupture avec le passé et l'histoire, refusent d'envisager l'avenir et l'absolu. Dans les faits, nombre de Québécois consacrent temps et argent à la télé, à l'ordinateur et au cocooning. Telles sont leurs priorités! S'ils font encore des rencontres amoureuses, celles-ci sont souvent brèves, malaisées et insatisfaisantes.

Dans les lieux publics, en société...

L'attitude des gens de 18 à 35 ans est prévisible.
Dans les bars, sur les terrasses, aux festivals: Aucun contact visuel n'est établi; l'homme ne regarde pas une femme dans les yeux lorsqu'il la croise dans la rue, dans le métro ou ailleurs. Soit son regard est fuyant, soit il est vissé au sol. Les hommes ne draguent pas non plus dans les bars. Ils se tiennent en petits groupes, entre eux, et n'abordent pas les individus de l'autre sexe. Certains se disent incapables d'approcher une belle inconnue, craignant par-dessus tout le rejet, l'humiliation ou la désapprobation sociale.
Aux soirées particulières: lorsque des célibataires québécois des deux sexes se rassemblent dans une maison, on observe des conduites d'isolement. Personne ne se soucie de faire les présentations: les gens se mettent à jaser deux à deux et ignorent les autres, qu'ils n'ont même pas salués. Difficile d'entrer en contact dans un tel climat de méfiance! Les gars n'ont aucune stratégie d'approche. Par exemple, un type invite chez lui des amis, dont une fille qui lui plaît. Il l'étudie à distance, discute un peu avec elle et se fait une certaine idée... sans lui manifester clairement son intérêt ni s'avancer. Sa position de repli le protège d'une déception ou d'un échec.

Pourquoi est-ce comme ça?

L'absence de comportements de séduction chez les jeunes mâles d'ici résulterait de divers facteurs qui ont façonné les attitudes et les moeurs au fil du temps.

Le féminisme radical des années 70 aurait affaibli le discours amoureux et la galanterie.

L'invasion de la pornographie contaminerait les rapports amoureux et sexuels en les déshumanisant. «Aujourd'hui, la pornographie multiplie les scènes psychopathiques où le corps est un morceau de viande, et le sexe, un acte de destruction», selon les journalistes Jean-Sébastien Marsan et Emmanuelle Gril. Ainsi, les pornophiles évoluent dans des univers beaucoup plus dégradants, humiliants et violents qu'il y a 20 ans, et la misogynie y est omniprésente.

Et puis, la porno est accessible en un clic dans internet, à toute heure du jour et de la nuit, alors qu'on est bien au chaud dans son petit cocon... et pas obligé d'établir un contact avec l'autre sexe.
Le chacun pour soi n'aide pas: la proportion de la population qui vit seule ne cesse d'augmenter. On a beau rêver du grand amour monogame, les relations homme-femme ne résistent pas longtemps au choc du réel.

Des critères trop sélectifs ne favorisent pas la formation des couples. La recherche de l'âme soeur se résume souvent à une quête de la femme idéale. Il n'y a qu'à consulter les fiches individuelles des messieurs sur les sites de rencontres: chacun y va de sa longue liste d'exigences relatives aux mensurations, à la couleur des yeux et des cheveux, à l'état civil, à la profession, à la scolarité, à la situation financière... Les plus ambitieux visent «une entente parfaite» avec l'autre, rien de moins! Or, trop d'attentes tuent le plaisir et les occasions de faire des rencontres.

La précarité professionnelle et financière vient déstabiliser la sphère privée.

L'ère «postmoderne» dans laquelle on vit est une époque dépourvue de contenu, de sens et de repères qui engendre beaucoup de confusion. «La liberté est associée au marché, le bonheur, à la consommation, la séduction, à la publicité, le sexe, à la pornographie», notent les auteurs. Cet état d'esprit entretient une pauvreté des liens interpersonnels, une indifférence des uns vis-à-vis des autres.
Bref, rien ne va plus comme avant en matière de flirt; et on dirait bien que le renversement des rôles traditionnels va durer encore un petit moment! On peut même conclure que les jeunes mâles traversent une phase d'ambivalence; ils sont déchirés entre leurs aspirations amoureuses (le couple mythique, encore et toujours!) et leur immense besoin d'indépendance.

Comment font-ils pour se rencontrer?

Les jeunes femmes avouent qu'elles ne se font pas draguer. La drague directe, dit-on, est très mal vue... Il est clair que les codes de rencontre ont changé. Contrairement à leurs cousins français, qui adorent les intrigues, les longues conquêtes ou les coups de théâtre, les Québécois misent sur le hasard pour établir des contacts: ils croisent de nouveaux visages au travail ou à une soirée amicale, «chassent» sur les sites de rencontres, composent avec un événement imprévu (on leur présente une célibataire sans avertissement, par exemple)... Sauf exception, les gars s'approchent des femmes sans en avoir l'air, quasiment sur la pointe des pieds. Ainsi, la majorité d'entre eux semble totalement exclure la prise de risque!

Date a girl who travels

Date a girl who travels. Date a girl who would rather save up for out of
town trips or day trips than buy new shoes or clothes. She may not look
like a fashion plate, but behind that tanned and freckled face from all
the days out in the sun, lies a mind that can take you places and an
open heart that will take you for what you are, not for what you can be.

Date a girl who travels. You’ll recognize her by the backpack she always
carries. She won’t be carrying a dainty handbag; where will she put her
travel journal, her pens, and the LED flashlight that’s always attached
to her bag’s zipper? In a small purse, how can she bring the small coil
of travel string, the wet tissues, the box of cracker, and the bottle of
water she’s always ready with, just in case something happens and she
can’t go home yet?


Yes, a girl who travels knows that anytime, anything can happen and she just has to be prepared with it. Nothing takes her by surprise; she takes everything with equanimity, knowing that such things are always a part of life. She’s reliable and dependable, traits that she’s learned while on the road.
You’ll also recognize a girl who travels by the fact that she’s always amazed at the world around her, no matter if she’s in her home town or in a place that’s totally new.


She sees beauty all around her, not just the ones featured in travel guides or shown in postcards. A girl who travels has developed a deeper appreciation for life. She won’t judge you, or pressure you to do things you don’t want to do. She knows too much about the importance of identity and self-efficacy, and she will appreciate all the more if you won’t pretend to be who you’re not.

You can make mistakes with a girl who travels, and you can also be as idiosyncratic as you can be. Trust me, she has seen so much worse in her travels, and knows firsthand the vagaries of human nature.

Date a girl who travels, because when you’re with her, you’ll realize that even though she’s napped at a temple in Angkor Wat, went  boating down the Mekong Delta, ran by the streets of Saigon, or went skinny-dipping in the caves in the Philippines, she still retains that humility that is the mark of a real traveler. She knows she’s been to a lot of places, but she’s humbled by the fact that the world is still a big place and she’s only seen a small part of it. Seeing this in her can make you feel all right with yourself too; there’s no need for you to do more, to be more. What you are is enough.

When you meet a girl who travels, ask her where she’s been and what she’s going to do next. She will appreciate your interest, and if you’re lucky, she may even invite you to join her. When she does, do.  Nothing bonds people better than traveling. On your trips, you will both see each other’s best and worst characteristics, and you can then decide whether she’s worth fighting for.

It’s easy enough to date a girl who travels. She won’t want expensive gifts; you can buy her (or both of you) cheap tickets to Thailand for the weekend, and she’ll be more than happy to take you to the longest wooden bridge in the country. You don’t even have to go overseas; you can take her out on day trips, caving or hiking, or treat her to a full body massage.

You can also buy her the little things that she keeps forgetting to buy for herself; that carabiner that will  attach her backpack to her seat so that she will feel easier about sleeping on her bus trip, or a backpack cover, a small alarm clock, a  money belt, or another sarong that will replace the one she lost in China.

She won’t mind if you get lost on your way to a date. She knows that oftentimes, the journey is more important than the destination. She will help you see the lighter side of things. She’ll walk along with you, not behind you, pointing out the interesting bits of things you’ll see on the way. Before long, you’ll realize that yes, the journey has been more memorable than the destination that you’ve planned to take her to.




Is a girl who travels worth it? Yes, she is. So when you find her, keep her. Don’t lose her with your insecurities and doubts. Because when she says she loves you, she really does. After all, she’s seen so many things, met so many people, and if she had chosen you, better grab that opportunity and thank the gods that you were lucky enough she’s chosen you and not that bloke she met while watching the sun rise in Angkor Wat, or while whitewater rafting in the Padas Gorge in Sabah.

If she says she loves you, she must have seen something in you, something that can always call her back from her travels, something that can anchor her to the world in the way that she wants to after weeks and months of being on the road.

Date a girl who travels. Make her feel safe, warm, and secure. Make her believe that no matter where she goes, and however long she’s gone, you’ll always be there for her, the one that she can call home. Find a girl who travels. Date her, love her, and marry her, and your world will never be the same again.

Monday, April 9, 2012

One very very happy dog

This is hilarious


Tree houses

A boy left his bike chained to a tree when he went away to war in 1914. He never returned, leaving the tree no choice but to grow around the bike
 
 
 
 A home amongst the trees. The Wilkinson Residence is located in Portland, Oregon
 
 
 
Dustin Feider had a vision: one that would be good for the tree, the environment and the deep human need to reconnect with nature and our primordial roots. Through his company, O2 Treehouse, Feider is out to revolutionize not merely tree houses but the entire concept of habitat. All the materials used for the tree house are entirely recycled.
 

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Worst Album Covers of All Time

Ok... Well... I don't have much to say on this one... GO have a look and observe by yourself lol

http://blog.tastebuds.fm/worst-album-covers-of-all-time/

Quim

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Marée rouge d’algues toxiques

Une marée rouge d’algues toxiques flotterait dans le coin de Trois-Pistoles; il semble qu’elle soit présente au rendez-vous chaque année mais que celle de 2008 soit particulièrement forte.
Après avoir entendu ça à la radio, j’ai pensé à notre Mikaël (si ça se trouve, il peut la voir de sa maison puisque ça vient tout près des rives, ou ramer dedans quand il passe en kayak…) et à ce coin que nous aimons tant nous l’équipe du film La Dernière Planète, et à ces petits bélugas qui font personnellement ma joie et ma fierté…

Bref, 4 bélugas seraient morts (certains articles disent plutôt 8), on essaie présentement de voir si les incidents sont bel et bien reliés. Selon un texte tiré du site web de Radio-Canada, “toutes les zones de pêche au mollusque sont présentement fermées dans l’estuaire du Saint-Laurent. Les marins ont également été avertis de surveiller les mammifères marins. Ceux qui consomment la plante toxique peuvent avoir un comportement imprévisible.” On nous apprend aussi que les scientifiques ont constaté cette année la présence de 50 000 algues par litre d’eau dans le Saint-Laurent, alors que la dose toxique est de 2000 par litre!

Greenpeace déplore aujourd’hui la censure effectuée par le gouvernement Charest dans le dossier des algues bleues, des algues bleu vert et, maintenant, rouges. Plusieurs vacanciers avaient évité déjà le fleuve St-Laurent pour leurs vacances habituelles. Durant l’été 2007 seulement, près de 160 lacs ont officiellement été déclarés contaminés et plusieurs ont été jugés par le gouvernement trop dangereux pour les humains.
Greenpeace ont publié un rapport sur les algues mortes le 8 juin 2008:

Zones mortes: comment les engrais agricoles tuent nos rivières, lacs et océans.

cliquer ici pour télécharger le rapport 

Il semble que la prolifération d’algues bleues a lieu partout dans le monde, et leur cause principale est commune; la sur-utilisation d’engrais pour l’agriculture.

J’ai trouvé cette magnifique photo, prise par Myriam Godfrey (disponible sur NIWA Science), sur les côtes de la Nouvelle-Zélande.

Red algal bloom at Leigh, near Cape Rodney. Photo de Miriam Godfrey. Cette photo peut être trouvée au NIWA Science web site.

Vous pouvez aussi lire la lettre de Greenpeace au gouvernement Charest publiée dans Le Devoir le 29 août 2007 concernant leur manque de transparence évidente concernant le dossier des algues bleues:

http://www.greenpeace.org/canada/fr/actualites/lacs-et-gouvernement-transparents

et pendant que vous êtes sur le site de Greenpeace, vous pouvez en profiter pour faire du cybermilitantisme, comme donner votre appui pour l’étiquetage des OGM par exemples…un petit pas mais important, histoire de faire déguerpir cette marée rouge avant qu’on y perde tous les bélugas qui y vivent…

Racoon eating popcorn


Funny cats in water : EPIC

Here is a cat video diferent from others I've seen... Cat and water. Made me laugh a lot. Hope the link will keep working over time!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=ctJJrBw7e-c


"I am because we are"


"An anthropologist proposed a game to African tribe kids. He put a basket full of fruit near a tree and told them that whoever got there first won the sweet fruits. When he told them to run they all took each others hands and ran together, then sat together enjoying their treats. When he asked them why they had run like that as one could have had all the fruits for himself they said: UBUNTU, how can one of us be happy if all the other ones are sad?

UBUNTU in the Xhosa culture means: "I am because we are".


Monday, April 2, 2012

The 7 Most Horrifying Parasites on the Planet


Source : http://www.cracked.com/article_17199_the-7-most-horrifying-parasites-planet.html

As soon as your doctor says you've got parasites in your body, you don't need to hear any more details. They're all horrible, right? How can it get worse than little tiny worms or something feeding on your insides?
Actually, it can get way, way worse. As it turns out, there's nothing in nature more creative than a parasite. And we don't mean that in a good way. For instance...


#7.
The Guinea Worm Will Make You Do Its Bidding
 

Technically, your body is full of tiny creatures already. Bacteria, viruses and so on. So really, should we get freaked out when we find out that there's a specific kind of worm that lives under our skin? And should it really bother us that said worm can grow to be longer than your leg?

This brings us to the guinea worm. It starts small, really small. It begins life as a microscopic larva tiny enough to fit inside of the common water flea. Like the elderly residents of Florida, water fleas love to hang out in stagnant pools of water, gossiping and doing water exercises until they are unknowingly ingested by big, thirsty, humans.
So you go swimming and the flea makes its way down your throat. Now, not being adequately equipped to survive the harsh environment of the human stomach, the water flea is dissolved away, leaving the guinea worm larva behind. It finds a soft, fleshy cavity to burrow into and starts growing.
And growing.

About a year after infection, the full sized guinea worm is no longer microscopic, but instead measures two to three goddamned feet long. As long as a three year-old human child.

Being so large, a cramped human body is no longer adequate real estate. So the worm wants to get out, and here's where it gets even weirder. The worm burrows to the surface of the skin and creates a blister, and causes a burning sensation. It does this on purpose, because the worm has figured out that a burning feeling in a limb makes humans want to dunk it in water.

This is exactly what the worm wants. It pokes its wriggling head out of the blister, and releases its foul, milky brew into the water, containing hundreds of thousands more larvae. They are promptly eaten by water fleas and the whole thing starts all over again.
 
#6.
Is That Your Tongue, Or is it Cymothoa Exigua?
 

On one hand, you can relax because this one doesn't affect humans... as far as we know. On the other hand, it's about the most fucked-up thing you'll ever hear. Cymothoa exigua is a tiny crustacean that sneaks up on a fish (specifically, a red snapper) and works its way in through the gills. Typical parasite behavior so far.
Then it attaches itself to the base of the fish's tongue, the tongue evidently being the tastiest part of the fish (get it!?). The parasite uses its claws to dig into the tongue and drink the fish's blood--and that's just the beginning.

As cymothoa exigua grows, less and less blood is able to get into the fish's tongue which causes the tongue to slowly atrophy and ultimately fall off--well, not so much "fall off" as pathetically float away, but you know what we mean.

With the tongue dead and gone, the parasite settles in and replaces the lost tongue with its own body. Somehow, cymothoa exigua is able to attach itself to the fish's tongue muscles, allowing the snapper to use it just like a normal tongue, the parasite flapping around as a permanent fixture in the fish's mouth for the rest of its life.
Why does it do this? We don't know, but we're going to go with the commonly held opinion that the cymothoa exigua simply thinks it's funny.


#5.
The Horsehair Worm's Side Effect? Suicide.
 

Imagine you're a happy grasshopper for a moment, joyfully kissing your grasshopper wife and kids goodbye as you leave the house, tiny briefcase in hand, ready to hop to work for the day.

Suddenly, on your way to the office, a sudden urge overtakes you, an urge that cannot be ignored. You obediently follow the siren song to the nearest body of water, and promptly fling yourself in. For weeks afterward, your widowed wife and friends will wonder what could have possibly made a perfectly happy and content grasshopper tragically commit suicide, by drowning no less. Depression? An affair gone wrong? Crushing gambling debts? No, it turns out it was just another strike from the soulless and evil menace known as the horsehair worm.
Resembling a coarse, thick horse hair (well, duh) the horsehair worm infiltrates insects, and sometimes even crabs, as a larva when the insect drinks tainted water. From inside the aforementioned grasshopper, the worm goes to work.

It weasels its way into the body cavity, and nourishes itself on the insect's tissues, sometimes growing up to a foot long. After a time, when the worm has matured, it starts to get horny, as teenagers do, and decides that the time has come to find himself a sexy mate. The problem is, all of the sexiest female worms hang out at the swimming pool club, and he's stuck inside of a prudish grasshopper.

That's a problem easily and dickishly solved by the horsehair worm, however, by simply reprogramming the insect's brain to seek out the nearest body of water and to hop right in, despite the sad fact that grasshoppers, like many other insects, can't swim.
As his former host panics and gasps its last breaths of sweet life, the worm casually slithers out of its anus, bids adieu to the drowning grasshopper and swims in search of the orgies of knotted up worms he's heard so much about.

#4.
The Filarial Worm Can Turn You into an Object of Horror

Fucking mosquitoes. As if there weren't enough reasons to hate these living dirty needles, the bastards are responsible for yet more horrifying diseases thanks to the multitude of parasites they unwittingly inject into us every time they feed.

One such parasite is the almost too-weird-to-be-real filarial worm and, yes, it does affect humans.

Nature's douchebag.

After a year spent bumming around in our bodies, the worms mature into adults and finally take up the job they were born to do, by moving into the lymphatic system. Doesn't sound so bad...

Well, here's the thing. The lymphatic system keep excess fluids moving out of your body. It's one of those unnoticed bodily tasks that you don't appreciate until it stop working. Like if, say, a bunch of worms clogged it up. The filarial worm does just that, bunches of them all working hard in the vessels near the lymph nodes, causing those vessels to become obstructed and inflamed. Shit starts backing up, and the tissue starts inflating like a freaking balloon.

Finally, you wind up with massive and debilitating enlargements of the legs and genitals, a condition commonly known as Elephantitis. Goddamn mosquitoes.

Despite his rampant case of filarial worms, this man is still too proud to use only one flip-flop.

#2.
Mind Control, Part I: Leocochloridium Paradoxum
 

Leucochloridium paradoxum is a parasite that has an impossible dream. Luey, as it shall henceforth be known, begins life literally in a puddle of shit. But Luey dreams of flight, and the method by which it achieves it is both complicated and fucked-up beyond comprehension.

First, knowing how much some animals love to eat shit, Luey lies in wait in his fecal puddle until the vacuum cleaner of nature, more commonly known as the snail, comes around to slurp it up.
Once inside the snail, Luey enacts the next part of his ingenious plan. Knowing that birds aren't too fond of eating slimy snails, he migrates to the snail's eyestalks and begins to stretch and change them into something that looks much more appetizing to birds: caterpillars.


The eyestalks that are usually so well-guarded and often retracted by the snail, are now pulsating, swollen and brightly-colored morsels of imitation caterpillar meat. Wait, it's not done.
Now is when Luey hacks into the snail's brain. It takes complete control, driving it like a little, slimy car out into the open so all of the hungry birds in the sky can see and swoop down on the irresistible caterpillar-like eyestalks.

Once inside the luxuriously spacious and soaring bird, Luey is free to feed on its insides, grow into an adult and reproduce knowing that soon, his babies will be shat out of the bird like he was, to start their own rags-to-riches lives. Meanwhile, the poor and confused snail is less one eyestalk, but has learned the hard way that eating shit is always a bad idea.

#1.
Mind Control, Part II: The Emerald Jewel Wasp
 

The emerald jewel wasp is a marvel of evolution. And evil.
The female, not being content with just laying her eggs in a hole and hoping the larvae find a way to survive like other insects, makes sure that her larvae will hatch right on top of their preferred food source: a cockroach. The problem with that is a typical cockroach is aggressive, and two to three times larger and beefier than the female.

She has found a way around this. An inventive, terrifying way.

Like a surgeon, the wasp uses her long stinger to penetrate the surprised cockroach, to paralyze and anesthetize the front section of its body. Now, she can take her sweet time, to make sure the second injection of her stinger is perfectly placed into a specific area of the roach's brain. She injects more venom directly into it, precisely blocking very specific receptors of neurotransmitters that essentially destroy the roach's fight or flight responses and leave it zombified.

Yes, the wasp knows how to do this.
Now in control of her very own cockroach, the wasp leads it back to her burrow. Once inside, she finally lays her egg on top of the cooperative cockroach, bites off its antennae in order to drink the roach's blood and replenish her energy, then exits the burrow, sealing it off with rocks and pebbles.


After a few days, the eggs hatch and the larvae slowly consume the insides of the roach until they form a cocoons and the roach is finally allowed to embrace the sweet relief of death. Eventually the adult wasp emerges from the cocoon/dead roach husk to begin its own life of surgical zombification.

Seriously, did you ever think you'd find yourself taking the roach's side in a situation?

Get RID of your Microwave

Here is an article that I hope will convince you of microwave harm on our health.
Source : http://usahitman.com/microwave-test/

Below is a Science fair project presented by a girl in a secondary school in Sussex.

In it she took filtered water and divided it into two parts. The first part she heated to boiling in a pan on the stove, and the second part she heated to boiling in a microwave. Then after cooling she used the water to water two identical plants to see if there would be any difference in the growth between the normal boiled water and the water boiled in a microwave.

She was thinking that the structure or energy of the water may be compromised by microwave.
As it turned out, even she was amazed at the difference, after the experiment which was repeated by her class mates a number of times and had the same result.







It has been known for some years that the problem with microwaved anything is not the radiation people used to worry about, it’s how it corrupts the DNA in the food so the body can not recognize it.

Microwaves don’t work different ways on different substances. Whatever you put into the microwave suffers the same destructive process. Microwaves agitate the molecules to move faster and faster. This movement causes friction which denatures the original make-up of the substance. It results in destroyed vitamins, minerals, proteins and generates the new stuff called radiolytic compounds, things that are not found in nature.

So the body wraps it in fat cells to protect itself from the dead food or it eliminates it fast. Think of all the Mothers heating up milk in these ‘Safe’ appliances. What about the nurse in Canada that warmed up blood for a transfusion patient and accidentally killed him when the blood went in dead. But the makers say it’s safe. But proof is in the pictures of living plants dying!!!

FORENSIC RESEARCH DOCUMENT
Prepared By: William P. Kopp
A. R. E. C. Research Operations
TO61-7R10/10-77F05
RELEASE PRIORITY: CLASS I ROO1a

Ten Reasons to dispose off your Microwave Oven

From the conclusions of the Swiss, Russian and German scientific clinical studies, we can no longer ignore the microwave oven sitting in our kitchens. Based on this research, one can conclude this article with the following :

1). Continually eating food processed from a microwave oven causes long term – permanent – brain damage by ‘shorting out’ electrical impulses in the brain [de-polarizing or de-magnetizing the brain tissue].

2). The human body cannot metabolize [break down] the unknown by-products created in microwaved food.

3). Male and female hormone production is shut down and/or altered by continually eating microwaved foods.

4). The effects of microwaved food by-products are residual [long term, permanent] within the human body.

5). Minerals, vitamins, and nutrients of all microwaved food is reduced or altered so that the human body gets little or no benefit, or the human body absorbs altered compounds that cannot be broken down.

6). The minerals in vegetables are altered into cancerous free radicals when cooked in microwave ovens.

7). Microwaved foods cause stomach and intestinal cancerous growths [tumours]. This may explain the rapidly increased rate of colon cancer in UK and America .

8). The prolonged eating of microwaved foods causes cancerous cells to increase in human blood.

9). Continual ingestion of microwaved food causes immune system deficiencies through lymph gland and blood serum alterations.

10). Eating microwaved food causes loss of memory, concentration, emotional instability, and a decrease of intelligence.